Keeping Vigil – An Interview with Ingrid Schultz on the Death Matters Live Radio Show

Ingrid Schultz, Chaplain at Menno Place was interviewed recently on the new radio show, Death Matters Live. This hour-long show on Vancouver Co-op Radio brings the matters of death, dying and loss to life.

Concerned that there wasn’t enough opportunity to talk about death and dying in our culture, the show was the brainchild of Jeffrey Young, Celebrant. He invited four other hosts to join him on the show which has an interview format.

Sharon Simpson, Director of Communications and Stakeholder Engagement at Menno Place was one of the four hosts invited to join the hosting team. Although she has never been in a recording studio nor hosted a radio show, she jumped at the opportunity.

“It was exciting to think that I could be a part of the conversation about death and dying. At Menno Place, we know what it is to support residents and families in their final days. We know what is required to support our residents who are experiencing the kinds of existential suffering that can come at end of life.”

On the first show as lead host, Sharon couldn’t think of a better initial guest than Ingrid Schultz, Chaplain at Menno Place. “Ingrid’s capacity to walk along side of others while they are jouneying at the end of life has inspired me to want to do the same”, said Sharon, “I wanted her to share her thoughts with the listening audience.”

“I had recently lost a good friend, Bob Harms, to cancer and spent time at his bedside in Hospice. I wanted to share the experience and the value of support in the final days, hours and minutes of a life. Ingrid and I have talked about “keeping vigil” and I appreciated her insight and experience,” said Sharon.

To listen to the broadcast of the show, Keeping Vigil,

 

Seventy-Eight Seniors Join in the National Senior’s Day Photo Shoot

National Seniors Day was great fun at Menno Place on Thursday, October 1, 2015.

Seniors living in Menno Apartments were invited to participate in a professional-quality photoshoot. Receptionists and the Recreation team booked seniors into time slots throughout the day to have their hair and makeup done – and to pose for professional portraits as well as silly photobooth pictures.

“I had an idea to do something a little different,” said Rylee Yurick, Recreation staff at The Apartments, “I just didn’t know it would grow to be THIS big!”

More than 75 seniors took part in the energy-filled day, many hearing about it from their friends and joining in throughout the day. The furniture was removed from the first floor lounge in Terrace East and the lounge was transformed into make-up, hair and photo stations.

Special thanks goes to the volunteers who gave their time to do the make-up and hair for our seniors.

“This is really emotional for me”, said one of the hairdressing students from Gentebella Beauty Academy, “I feel like we are giving such joy and helping people who are living history. I am so moved by these seniors.”

The students at the Gentebella Beauty Academy were accompanied by their instructor. She shared how they had recently completed a book that focused on the power of kindness between each other. “What a perfect opportunity for the students to practice what they are learning about the power of kindess”, she said, “This opportunity came at the perfect time in their schooling. Can we do it every year?”

Shopper’s Drug Mart also sent two of their valued employees to volunteer for a day with seniors – what is the motivation? One of the volunteer makeup artists explained how she had recently lost her grandmother. They were very close and she was determined to give out of her love and remembrance of her grandmother. When the opportunity arose, she jumped at it.

“This day is so moving”, she shared, “Everyone is having so much fun and it’s so incredibly special that we can play a part in it.”

Some of the seniors were shy about wearing makeup. One senior in her 90’s confessed that she’s never had any makeup on her face, “I want to try it before I die”, she said. Others were fearful that they would be done up “to look like a clown”. Instead, the professional makeup specialists chose colors and shades that brought out the beautiful features in the senior’s faces.

Even the men got involved! They waited their turn and chose some of the props for the photo booth. Wigs, hats, fascinators, ties and picture frames created fun-filled photos for the seniors. All of the participants will receive printed photos and the digital files of their photos.

As is the practice at Menno Place, couples were supported in their participation. Several spouses walked over to residential care to fetch their loved one for the photos. They enjoyed an adventure with their loved one that will be accompanied by a memorable photo. “The photo shoot was fun,” said a husband who supports his wife who suffers from dementia, “Thanks for all you are willing to do for us oldsters – it’s just wonderful.”

The Finance Team at Menno Place came to see what was happening. “Wow! This is what it’s all about”, said a member of the team, “This is what we do it for…. the residents, it’s all for the residents.” It was deeply moving to see the joy, the pride, the laughter and the appreciation from the residents.

The volunteers from Gentebella Beauty Academy and Shopper’s Drug Mart were encouraged to guess the ages of the seniors for whom they were doing makeup and hair. When asked about one senior in particular, the hairstylist guessed she was 86. She is actually 105 – the oldest resident living at Menno Place.

“What’s the secret to your beautiful skin?”, was overheard at the makeup station. “I’m a little bit English” was the reply!

“The day couldn’t have gone any better”, said Rylee Yurick, the organizer, “I’m just so so happy that we could give this to our seniors today.”

She followed up the day with a thank-you note to the volunteers and staff, “Thank you so much to everyone who helped put on our first National Seniors Day Photo Shoot!… to see this small vision come to life and see the residents beam with confidence. I cannot thank you enough.”

 

 

 

Family & Friends Support Network – October 15th

Join us to discover how family and friends can be supported and involved in residents’ lives at Menno Home and Hospital.

Thursday, October 15, 2015

1:30 – 2:30pm
Menno Home Chapel

Refreshments will be served.
We are looking forward to seeing you!

Facilitators:
Dan Janzen – Social Worker
Ruth Neufeld – Social Services


Fall Calendar:

Time: 1:30pm – 2:30pm
Location: Menno Home Chapel

Thursday, November 19
Thursday, December 17

What people are saying about Grandparent’s Day! PLUS… a Winner!

Through our Friends and Family Email Newsletter, we invited people to give us their feedback on the Grandparent’s Day held on Saturday, September 12th. There were gracious comments about having more food, improving parking signage and having more seating.
We also held a draw for those who provided their responses through the online survey. The winner of the $50 gift certificate to a local restaurant is JUDIE SUDA!

Here are the comments that people shared as highlights of the day:

My grandchildren enjoyed looking at the finches and working on the crossword puzzles in the activity room after they went to the washroom. 
Seeing such a great turnout for the day!
 
As a daughter of a resident, I enjoyed the interaction between my mother and her grandchildren & great grandchildren (my grandchildren). She felt happy to share her “home” with them. They enjoyed lots of fun activities! I’m sure they’ll attend the next event.
Well done!
 
It was so festive – great idea – everyone so happy – thanks to everyone for their hard work!
 
The fact that my mom could enjoy the grandkids and they could have fun at grandma’s house! The bouncy castles and cotton candy and popcorn were a hit for the kids. It great!!
 
Watching my Grandma watch my nephew blow bubbles. The kids loved the train bouncy castle & cotton candy.
 
To see my two daughters from Philadelphia and Kamloops and my granddaughter with her adorable little one and a half year old daughter from Abbotsford attend the happy atmosphere!

 
Being able to bring the grandkids for a fun day with great grandma knowing there would be lots of fun things for them to do. Also it was my sons birthday that day – he is now 33 – but he too enjoyed all the food. It was a well run, spectacular event, with loads of food, and we really enjoyed the drummers!
 
Seeing all the happy faces and the wonderful feeling of community, which I love about Menno Place. We met some family and friends that go back along ways. We both had ‘bunless hot dogs’ . . . good for the waistline. 
 
Having four generations of family together to watch the kids have fun.

Grandparent’s Day – What a Party!

Menno Place residents are all smiles as they recollect the amazing National Grandparents Day Party that took place this past weekend. Residents invited children, grand-children and great-grandchildren to play with them in the 1 acre secure courtyard that is the center of the Menno Place campus. More than 600 people joined in the festivities!

“This is just like Playland!”, said one resident, referencing the huge local fair. He was hosting five of his great-grandchildren. All smiles, he led them to the cotton candy station where they all enjoyed a blue bundle of whipped sugar. Their next stop? The bouncy castles!

With bouncy castles, bean bag toss, a craft table sponsored by The Reach Gallery, storytime sponsored by The Fraser Valley Library, a photo booth, live entertainment, hot dogs, popcorn, bubble station, button station, temporary tattoos and karaoke, there wasn’t time to sit still. Children brought their energy and their joy to the senior’s campus of care.

When Mickey and Minnie Mouse made their appearance, both the children and the seniors broke into smiles. High-fives, big hugs and family photos with the legendary mice brought the generations together in a way that helps to solidify the bonds of family.

“This is more than just a party”, says Karen Baillie, CEO of Menno Place, “This is a way of giving our residents the opportunity to share positive family memories across the generations right here in their own home. Some residents can’t get out, so we brought the party here for to them to share.”

The party ran out of hot dogs… twice! “We planned for 300 people and thought that would be a huge success,” said Sharon Simpson, Director of Communications and Stakeholder Engagement, “We couldn’t imagine that so many of our residents would take the opportunity to share this day with their families.”

Over forty volunteers made the event possible by manning booths, providing security, cooking hotdogs, serving popcorn and cotton candy and transporting residents from their homes to the courtyard to take in the festivities. “We served over 60 litres of ice cream!”, laughs Karin Schroeder, a staff member who brought her daughter along to help for the day. An 85 year old senior said, “Dad always said no to cotton candy at the fair when I was a child. We could never afford it. This was the first time I’ve tried it!”

Annette Foster, Resident Care Co-ordinator and staff member for the past 18 years at Menno Place, was excited to see how her passion for seniors could dovetail with her husband, Kelly’s entertainment company, Joyful Celebrations. It’s hard to imagine the day when a bouncy castle is the right entertainment choice for seniors but the two came together perfectly for this captivating party.

“A significant goal for the Recreation Department at Menno Place is to bring the generations together and demystify the stigma of senior care homes”, says Alison Priebe, Recreation Aide who spearheaded the organization of the event. “This event met that goal and forever changed the way those little people will think about visiting great-grandpa or grandma.”

International Grandparents Day was first recognized in Canada in 1995. It is a family day intended to; honor grandparents, give grandparents an opportunity to show love for their children’s children; and help children become aware of the strength, information and guidance older people can offer.

Karen Baillie sums it up when she says, “Menno Place’s Grandparents Day Party was our opportunity to publicly affirm the identity and importance of grandparents and the vital role they play in the nurturing, upbringing and education of the next generations. It was our privilege to throw them a party!”

Family & Friends Support Network Kick-Off – Sept. 10th at 1:30pm

Come and join us to discover how family and friends can be supported and involved in residents’ lives at Menno Home and Hospital.

Thursday, September 10th, 2015

1:30 – 2:30pm
Menno Home Chapel

Refreshments will be served.
We are looking forward to seeing you!

Facilitators:
Dan Janzen – Social Worker
Ruth Neufeld – Social Services


Fall Calendar:

Time: 1:30pm – 2:30pm
Location: Menno Home Chapel

Thursday, October 15
Thursday, November 19
Thursday, December 17

Training for Chaplaincy Volunteers – September 26th

Are you interested in becoming a chaplaincy volunteer at Menno Place? Volunteers provide spiritual friendship and support for residents on a regular basis through visits and ongoing relationship.

Training takes place September 26th from 8:30am to 3:30pm in the Menno Hospital Chapel.

For more information or to sign up, contact:

Ingrid Schultz, Chaplain 
Email: Ingrid.Schultz@MennoPlace.ca
Phone: 604.851.7396

or

David Dick, Chaplain 
Email: David.Dick@MennoPlace.ca
Phone: 604.851.7395

Grandparent’s Day 2015, Sept. 12th – Kids, Grandkids & Great Grandkids INVITED!

You are invited to enjoy a magical celebration of the role that a grandparent plays in the life of their grandchild. Bouncy castles, Mickey & Minnie, Cotton Candy, Korean Drum Line, The Reach Gallery Crafts, Photo Booth and so much more! Come for the fun, stay for the memory making. Celebrate that special grandparent,  or great-grandparent. You will not be disappointed!

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Join us for an afternoon of family, food, and fun!

  • DATE

    Saturday, September 12, 2015

  • TIME

    11:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m.

  • LOCATION

    Menno Place Courtyard

Bring your family and enjoy entertainment, story telling, face painting and jumping on bouncy castles! You could even meet Mickey and Minnie Mouse!

Hot dogs, popcorn, cotton candy, and ice cream will be available while supplies last!

You’re Invited – Join us at Menno Place in July & August

JULY

July 7 – Concert in Care: Hospital Chapel at 10:3o am

July 9 –  Music in the Courtyard at  2:30 pm

July 23 –  Music in the Courtyard at 2:30 pm

July 27 – Picnic in the Park (Hosted by Community Services at Mill Lake)

AUGUST

August 6 – Family BBQ at the Apartments! Buy your tickets from Receptionists at Terrace East and Primrose Gardens.

August 13 – Music in the Courtyard at 2:30pm

August 27 – Music in the Courtyard at 2:30pm

August 28 – Cornfest and Hamburger BBQ – proceeds go to Recreation programs  – 11am – 2pm

SEPTEMBER

September 12 – Grandparent’s Day Fair with bouncy castles, cotton candy and entertainment  – 11am – 2pm

Good-bye and Thank you, Kathrin Friesen!

Kathrin Friesen has been a part of the Menno Place community for the past 8 months. She is participating in The International Volunteer Exchange Program (IVEP) that is run by the Mennonite Central Committee. Along with many others from around the world, Kathrin joined in this yearlong work and cultural exchange that supports opportunities for young, Christian adults.

Kathrin hails from Brazil and looks forward to the next phases of her life journey. She brought music, devotions, faith, friendship and laughter to the community here at Menno Place. Her bright smile, kind heart and willing attitude will continue to bless those who have the privilege of walking life alongside Kathrin. We are grateful for the time we were able to share with her here at Menno Place. Blessings in your future and know that you are always welcome here in Canada!

Kathrin’s farewell is on Tuesday, July 7 at 2:30pm in the Courtyard.

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Kathrin Friesen, IVEP MCC volunteer shares devotions with the residents in E1 Menno Home.